Since my last update, I have received an email from Paul Marchbank, a lecturer at Southampton Solent University whom I emailed about his expert knowledge on Friends and gender. We decided that it would be best if we spoke on the phone so that it wouldn't be a long essay (as most of my other research is) and I can pick and choose the opinions and pieces of advice that I want to do further research around and that can include in my project.
During the discussion, I realised that my project so far and at the moment has been mainly focused on the representations in Friends and not American society even though I have tried to research these two topics in relation to each other. Because of this, I believe that maybe this means that there isn't much of a link between the two and I need to discuss this further with my supervisor. This may lead me to re-evaluate my question.
Paul said that Friends' representations were and are extremely typical of the sitcom genre as this is both a way of adding to the comical element of the show and also a way of encouraging viewer identification. This reinforces my own opinions and thoughts as I was thinking this too, and he also added that this is very important in terms of viewer demographics of Friends and why this was chosen/why it works.
Another interesting point he also raised was that gender representations (although having minor changes) have been pretty much the same for at least 100 years in popular media platforms and that it may be highly unlikely they will change over the course of Friends, however may still be possible. We also discussed how the female characters are represented it a far more stereotypical way than the male characters (this may point to the main demographic being a female audience - having mostly feminine characters to relate to, even the men themselves). This also could suggest that even if there are an even split of male/female viewers (need to research demographics), this is likely to show that male stereotypes are difficult to enjoy watching on a unisex level and that they are more strong when represented.
A further interesting point that Paul made was the relation of the storyline's to classic fairytales that people tell their children and that everyone is forced to conform to. He pointed out that, as all show's do, Friends ends when Monica and Chandler have had a baby
CHILDREN, Ross and Rachel get back together
LOVE/MARRIAGE, and Phoebe and Mike get marriage
LOVE/MARRIAGE. This is a classic way of ending a series and it is done because the audience is made to feel as if that love, marriage and children are the only goals in life - especially for women (proposed demographic) - and this makes the show more satisfying and fulfilling in their eyes.
Paul went into a lot more detail and added a lot more information than just this and so I will do another blog post about the discussion in the near future. Below is a copy of the notes I made during the phone call, they may not make a lot of sense so (as I have done here) I will breakdown different course of discussion in another blog post.
I have also found another "expert", Dr. Rebecca Feasey, that I am going to email about my project in the same way I did here. I found this person by attending Bath Spa University open day and her name being mentioned as a "gender representations in popular television" expert. In my next update I will mention my progress with this.